Nice guys come in two different types: toxic and masculine. Knowing the difference is critical because some traits women desire and crave. Nothing is wrong with being nice, but something is wrong with being toxic.
Types of nice guys
Toxic. This guy is overly accommodating and overly nice. He’s overly kind and always prioritizes somebody else’s needs. He thinks that by doing this, people will like him more. The reality is that nobody treats him well because nobody respects him. It’s impossible to get respect when you’re a doormat, and women pick up on this. Don’t do things because you think you’re going to get something. Do things because it’s the right thing to do.
Masculine. This nice guy shows kindness, but he also shows strength and assertiveness. He takes control of situations and can give himself. These characteristics are irresistible to women.
- Genuine kindness without agenda. Being genuine is one of the most attractive traits that a man can possess. Instead of doing things for people because he thinks he will get something in return (having an agenda), he’s genuinely kind. He does things because it’s the right thing; this man is authentic.
- Being self-assured with confidence and humility. Many men put on an act of confidence, trying to show the world or prove something. A self-assured man knows his value, and he’s not trying to act like his sh!t doesn’t stink. He knows his strengths and owns his flaws. These are sexy qualities because everyone likes to be around someone who can make fun of themselves and doesn’t take themselves too seriously. You shouldn’t put yourself down, however. There’s a big difference between owning imperfections and constantly putting yourself down.
- Assertiveness. Set boundaries and not say ‘yes’ to everything. Know when to protect yourself from being taken advantage of.
- Charisma. Being charismatic includes how you present yourself, smell, stand, body language, confidence, eye contact, and style. A woman loves a man who takes ownership of his presentation and personal packaging. Don’t dress average—stand out by looking good and caring for your personal brand. Gain respect by taking care of your personal packaging, which is one of the easiest steps. Dress well, be well groomed, and smell amazing. Here’s how to smell amazing! Use my code alpham20 to receive 20% OFF your total Gisada order! Remember that body language can take some work, but you can master it too.
- Motivation. When a nice guy is underperforming at his job, career, or life, he’s worried about fitting in and not rocking the boat. He does what’s expected instead of what’s in his heart. You shouldn’t apologize for wanting more or going after your dreams. Be assertive and realize your potential. Don’t let life bend you over.
