Today’s video is pretty simple. To help you identify the women you should never date, and if you’re dating them, you need to break up because some of these are red flags and types that are not worth your time. You are too damn amazing! Smell amazing, too, with the Pete & Pedro Dating Kit!
Run the other way from these types
- All guy friends. Having many guy friends is not normal or natural for a girl. If she does, this is a sign you need to run the hell the other way. Think about it: why is she hanging out with all the dudes? Does she like the attention? Does she need the affirmation? Does she need someone to buy her things and do things for her? No matter the reason, it’s a losing proposition.
- Unappreciative. She doesn’t appreciate it when you do something nice for her. Whether you buy something for her or help her, if she doesn’t say ‘thank you,’ you should not be dating her. No matter how long you’ve been dating, if somebody doesn’t have the decency, respect, or common courtesy to say ‘thank you,’ it’s a sign you need to dump. She’s even super spoiled or used to everybody doing everything for her.
- Substance issues. These are red flags if she drinks too much or has substance abuse issues. It’s not cute, even if she gets a little drunk and shows her boobs, and it will get old quickly. It also will get a lot worse. Invest in people who will invest in themselves.
- Emotionally or physically abusive. This is a huge red sign if you’re with somebody who hits, slaps, bunches, or engages physically. She’s toxic, and the relationship will lead nowhere good. The emotionally abusive will put you down and blame you.
- Manipulative. If she tries to make you do certain things, she talks about her ex to make you feel bad for not doing something, or she makes you feel like less of a man, this is not normal.
- Volatile. Sure, women can be crazy emotional, but next-level extra emotional is not healthy. She freaks out for no reason and can be crazy, jealous, rageful, or pissed.
- Dirty fighter. She brings up things from the past. You need to be with somebody healthy with their communication, not just when times are good. When you have an argument, you really get to know someone.
- Boundary breaker. If she snoops through your phone, that’s a problem. Also, other issues are when she makes you feel like she doesn’t respect you, like talking behind your back and not behaving appropriately around other guys when going out. Setting boundaries for yourself and how you expect your partner to act and interact with others is appropriate. If they don’t agree with that or don’t do it, that’s a sign you need to find somebody that will appreciate you.
- Low self-esteem. If she’s materialistic and puts too much value on stuff or appearances, whether it’s a car or clothes or herself physically, this is a sign. If she is super into plastic surgery or injections, that’s not normal and a losing battle. Her self-esteem is low, which can manifest in many unhealthy ways. Whether it’s getting attention from others, shopping excessively, or doing self-destructive things. No amount of love will fix somebody who is deficient in how they feel about themselves.
- Dumb. Dumb girls aren’t cute or funny. If she doesn’t have anything between her ears, you have to understand that this is somebody you will not be able to kick it with long term. You need someone who’s intelligent and thinks for themselves. She should not be a sheep, obsessed with social media and constantly posting.
- Her body is a commodity. Female Instagram models are the modern equivalent of strippers. These Instagram models seek validation, attention, and money by showing off their bodies, which is not sustainable. She’s always going to be seeking validation and always chasing that high. She might be hot, but you must consider the long-term downsides and consequences.
- Doesn’t support or love you. She needs to support your dreams and you as a person. You may have made mistakes, issues, and arguments — but you need to be with somebody who loves and uplifts you.
