How desirable are you? Have you ever stopped to think about it? Today, we will answer that question, and I think many of you will be pleasantly surprised to discover you are more desirable than you realize.
Many of us feel desirability regarding physical appearance. The truth is that physical appearance is only part of the equation. There are many intangibles besides physical traits that people can’t see or touch.
Physical characteristics of highly desirable men
- Height. If you’re a tall dude, you’re view is more desirable than a shorty like me. It doesn’t mean, though, if you’re short that you’re not sexy. But, tell men are viewed as more desirable.
- Deep voice. Deep voices are viewed as attractive.
- Bone structure. You are desirable for reproduction if you have larger wrists or a strong bone structure.
- Upside-down triangle. A nice drop, like an upside-down triangle, is desirable. Also, strong arms, wide chest, and broad shoulders are desirable.
- Nice glutes.
- Nice jaw.
- Nice eyes.
- Nice hair, including beard and head of hair.
- Bigger hands and feet.
- Big weiner.
- Nice teeth.
- Prominent features (like a larger nose) and proportionate facial symmetry.
Boost your desirability by:
- Being well-groomed. You should pay attention to your hairstyle, facial hair, and skin.
- Smelling amazing. You can boost your desirability by smelling amazing. Check out REBEL by Pete & Pedro.
- Manscaping. By trimming around Big Al & the Twins, you’ll be more desirable to women, you will smell better, and your weiner will look bigger. Make sure you have fresh balls.
- Dressing well is a secret weapon. Pay attention to your style and be the best-dressed guy in every room. You don’t have to be the most fashion-forward but dress with purpose and intention. Make sure your clothing is clean and fits your body. Understanding how clothing fits your body can minimize your perceived negatives.
- Understanding the psychology of colors and what they do visually. You can instantly look taller, more muscular, and sexier. Do not let women pick out your clothing.
- Being in good shape. You need to have your body fat under 15% so you don’t have man boobs and love handles. Work out to instantly make yourself more desirable.
Intangibles for desirability
- Ambition. If you’re ambitious and have goals, and if you’re successful and financially responsible, this is next level desirable. This means that you’ve been able to string a few things together to build yourself up including your career and then come level.
- Owning a home. If you own your place or have a nice apartment, this makes you more desirable.
- Clean living space. If you’re a clean individual, you’re more desirable. This includes your car. There are also points where flash becomes a bit of a turnoff. Sometimes, less is more. Boasting and showing off sometimes makes you look less desirable.
- Confidence. You shouldn’t be arrogant. Nobody wants to be with an asshole. You also should not be weak or immature.
- Educated. You will be highly desirable if you have intelligence and are a thinker.
- Good personality. You’re more desirable if you have good manners and emotional challenges.
- Communicate eloquently. If you can have a conversation easily and are interesting, this is attractive.
- High self-esteem and self-worth. If you have a good moral compass, this also makes you more desirable. There are a lot of train wrecks out there on social media.
- Being a good dude. You don’t want to be a give in order to get. Be pure in your intentions and show your kindness.
- Helping others. Humbly help others and do good for the world.
