I want to talk about the male advantage and why, at 30 years old, men are just getting started. It’s a switch that gets flipped after men go through their twenties. Data from scientific research demonstrates how men’s lives get better and scale exponentially at 30.
For women, on the other hand, if they’re not married or where they want to be, they freak out because their looks start to fade and insecurities start. Women are ultra-aware that their biological clock is running out. When women are starting not to look as good, men are looking better, making more money, and getting sexier. Men’s confidence levels go through the roof as well.
With age comes wisdom. And men have an advantage over women. Life hasn’t even gotten started in your 20s. You’re not even scratching the surface until you’re 30 if you’re a man.
Why men’s lives don’t start before age 30
Earning potential. Prime earning potential starts at 30. The Bureau of Labor and Statistics reports that men see a salary increase of 60% between the ages of 30 and 40, while women plateau at the age of 32.
More attractive. Men are more attractive starting in their 30s. They continue to get more attractive through their 40s. Even into their 50s, if you have your hair and a decent body, you are next-level sexy dude. Men in their 20s are a bit awkward with possible acne, hairstyles that are not as good as they could be, and unrefined style. Working out may not even pay the dividends that it will when you hit your 30s. Your body will respond in your 30s, getting better muscles and looking more masculine. Men grow into their bodies. Their features and faces get more defined, and facial hair fills out. If you continue to do what you need to stay in shape by working out and eating right, and if you work on having good hair and good skin, the 40s is the next level. Women view men in their late 30s and early forties as the most attractive. For women, it’s 22 years old. Things start to fall and sag and wrinkle after that. Men age like fine wine, on the other hand.
Confidence. In your 30s, you’re more comfortable in your skin and feel better about yourself. I also use therapy to allow me to stop carrying a lot of the baggage I had in my 20s. Get 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help you.
Dating is easier. In your twenties, many of the women who you find attractive are also in their twenties, and they’re not interested in men in their twenties. But they are interested in men in their 30s and above because they want men who are successful, responsible, and secure. Men in their 30s have the pick of the spiciest senoritas.
Peak leadership and influence. In your 30s, you become more influential in your career, and you’re a bit senior to the noobs that are just starting. Companies seek people to promote, and men in their 30s have an edge over younger people and women. Women experience stagnation or slow down in their 30s, while men accelerate. Around 50 is when advancement and growth start to slow down for men. You’ll have to stay sharp and educated and ensure you’re dressing correctly to advance further and be taken seriously.
Less concerned. As men age into their 30s, they feel more in control and worry less about stupid and insignificant stuff. They realize many things they worried about when younger didn’t matter, so there’s less pressure. Women, on the other hand, feel a tremendous amount of pressure and end up doing things to continue to look like a 22-year-old because of what society is telling them. This becomes detrimental and an obsession with looking young. Aging men don’t feel the same pressure, but they should still have a good body, good skin, hair, and other features, but the pressure is not the same. Women feel external pressure, whereas men feel internal pressure. Men have confidence climbing from their twenties into their 30s, and they feel better about themselves as they age.
